It’s probably one of the highest cause of unhappiness. Things are always so much more fun and exciting before it happened and then ROUTINE kicks in and things start to slowly fall apart.
Don’t fall into a routine. Always try keep things exciting. Don’t always say or do the same thing. Say or do something surprising.
Which is why they say getting into a relationship is “easy”, making it last is hardwork. However, as long as the two people keep working at it then nothing is going to matter. Not even ROUTINE!!
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Why is patience important?
To understand that, we need to look at the other side and ask, “What is impatience?” Impatience is on the anger continuum. First you have irritation, then impatience and then anger and, at the far end, rage. So, besides helping us reach goals, what is important about patience is that it keeps our anger turned off.
What do we gain by being patient?
Ultimately, patience allows us to act more mindfully and wisely. You get peace of mind when things are challenging, and you also have better relationships with other people — parents, kids, co-workers, spouse. Lord knows, patience is a quality we most need for high-functioning relationships. It allows us to hang in there and keep going, whether with a person or with a process, or in a business.
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